Bravo star Andy Cohen is giving a major shout-out to his longtime friend, John Mayer, for standing up against rumors about their relationship. The talk show host recently addressed the issue on his Daddy Diaries podcast, and he couldn’t be prouder of Mayer’s response to a journalist’s speculation.
Mayer Calls Out Speculation
It all started when a Hollywood Reporter journalist questioned Cohen about the nature of his friendship with Mayer, hinting at possible romantic involvement. Mayer, known for his hit “Your Body Is a Wonderland,” was quick to clap back, calling the question “deeply flawed.” His defense didn’t go unnoticed by Cohen, who dedicated a segment of his podcast on May 17 to praise Mayer’s stand.
Ending the Rumors
“This should now put an end to anyone asking us, ‘What’s the deal with you two?’ Explain it,” Cohen said. He elaborated on why such questions are not just intrusive but also offensive. “It is demeaning to ask a gay guy about being friends with a straight guy,” Cohen pointed out. It assumes a gay guy can’t be friends with a straight person without them having sex.
Mayer: An Ally and a Friend
Cohen couldn’t help but express his admiration for Mayer’s public denouncement of the rumors. “What an ally,” Cohen said, applauding Mayer for wanting his response published in THR. “I really just love that he did that, and I applaud him for wanting it published.”
Mayer’s Statement
In his letter to The Hollywood Reporter, Mayer emphasized the importance of accepting diverse friendships without defaulting to baseless assumptions. “I’d like to think [the public is] sophisticated enough to see a relationship like ours without assuming it must include a sexual component,” Mayer wrote. “That turns the concept of being gay into an ignorantly two-dimensional one.”
Mayer continued, “I honestly love John Mayer, and he loves me. But because we’re so affectionate toward each other, people don’t know what box to put that in. They assume we’re sleeping with each other, which we are most definitely not.”
A Beloved Hollywood Dynamic
John and Andy’s friendship isn’t just a personal connection; it’s a beloved dynamic in Hollywood. Their bond showcases the depth of platonic love and challenges societal norms about male friendships, especially those that cross sexual orientation lines.
A Wider Message
By speaking out, both Cohen and Mayer are helping to dismantle stereotypes about relationships between gay and straight men. Their actions encourage a broader understanding of friendship and allyship in the public eye, reminding everyone that genuine affection doesn’t always fit into conventional categories.
Conclusion
As the Cannes Film Festival continues to make headlines, it’s refreshing to see Hollywood friendships like Cohen and Mayer’s making waves for all the right reasons. Their openness and mutual respect set a positive example, proving that strong bonds can thrive without fitting into preconceived notions. Here’s to more friendships that defy labels and celebrate genuine connection.
