In a revealing preview of her upcoming memoir, “Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself,” Crystal Hefner, widow of the legendary Hugh Hefner, provides readers with an intimate look behind the closed doors of the Playboy Mansion. From beauty standards to peculiar preferences, Crystal shares her experiences and sheds light on the complexities of life as a Playmate and the late founder’s expectations.
Hugh Hefner’s Lasting Influence on Crystal’s Appearance:
Despite Hugh Hefner’s passing in 2017 at the age of 91, Crystal Hefner discloses that his influence continues to resonate, particularly when it comes to her appearance. According to Crystal, Hefner offered specific advice, such as discouraging belly button rings, deeming them “trashy.” This revelation offers a glimpse into the meticulous expectations Hefner had for those associated with the Playboy brand.
Promotion Over Comfort: The Playboy Logo’s Uncomfortable Attire:
Crystal unveils a less glamorous side of life at the Playboy Mansion, where Hefner prioritized promotion over comfort. Encouraging her to “Wear the flag,” referring to the Playboy logo, Crystal recounts wearing uncomfortable and inexpensive shirts to promote the iconic brand. This insight offers a nuanced perspective on the sacrifices made in the name of promoting the Playboy empire.
Beauty Standards and Grooming Expectations:
Hefner’s discerning eye extended to Crystal’s grooming routine, dictating specific guidelines for her nails and hair. According to Crystal, nail polish had to be a neutral color, eschewing popular choices like the French manicure. The mogul also voiced preferences about her hair, pressuring Crystal to bleach it whenever her dark natural roots started showing. This revelation provides a candid view of the stringent beauty standards set within the confines of the Playboy Mansion.
Behind the Memoir’s Title: “Only Say Good Things”:
Crystal Hefner discloses the inspiration behind the memoir’s title, a directive from Hugh Hefner himself: “I want you to continue my legacy going forward…and I want to remind you to only say good things about me.” However, it appears that the women in Hefner’s life, including Crystal, are now breaking their silence and sharing their own stories, diverging from the founder’s directive.
Shared Stories: A Departure from Hefner’s Legacy:
The revelation that Crystal and other women associated with Hugh Hefner are now sharing their stories marks a departure from the late founder’s desire for a positive legacy. The memoir, along with the emerging narratives, raises questions about the darker aspects of life at the Playboy Mansion and the complexities of relationships within.