Lupita Nyong’o is offering a glimpse into her emotional journey after publicly announcing her split from Selema Masekela in October 2023. In a candid interview with Porter, the actress opened up about her decision to share the news with her fans and her outlook on love moving forward.
Breaking the Mold, Finding Honesty:
“I was living in a lot of pain and heartbreak,” Nyong’o shared, revealing the emotions behind her social media statement. “I didn’t want to contribute to the illusion that everything is always perfect.” She felt compelled to be real with her followers, even in the face of vulnerability.
Lesson Learned, Privacy Regained:
However, the actress admits she might have taken a different approach if given the chance to do it over again. “That was very, very sage of me,” she mused, hinting at a return to her previously private stance on personal matters. “I’m going back to those days, by the way,” she declared, indicating a desire to shield her personal life from public scrutiny in the future.
Love Remains a Constant:
Despite the recent heartbreak, Nyong’o’s faith in love remains unshaken. “Our purpose in life is to love,” she stated, acknowledging that finding love again might involve stepping back into the vulnerable unknown. “And so you have to get back in it,” she concluded, expressing her openness to future possibilities.
A Whirlwind Romance and a New Chapter:
Nyong’o and Masekela’s relationship publicly began in December 2022, only to end abruptly ten months later. Following her statement, she was spotted holding hands with actor Joshua Jackson, sparking rumors of a new romance. While details remain scarce, sources claim they’ve been dating “for a very short while now” and are keeping things private.
Moving Forward with Caution:
With a recent divorce from his wife, Jodie Turner-Smith, also fresh on the minds of fans, Jackson and Nyong’o appear to be taking their connection slowly. “They have a solid foundation,” an insider revealed, hinting at a possible connection built on pre-existing friendship.
Whether this latest development blossoms into something more substantial remains to be seen. However, one thing is clear: Lupita Nyong’o is prioritizing self-care and cherishing the power of love while navigating the complexities of public life and private emotions.
